My plan for this blog is for it to be an outlet for me while going through this marital separation. I need to be able to “get things out” without necessarily harping on and on to my friends and family who, are very supportive by the way, but may not always want to listen to me. So I will harp to the outer-limits of the internet.
Yes, I am separated from my husband. We’ve been married less than two years. He committed infidelity but he doesn’t think it’s a big deal. He thinks the credit card debt (that, yes, I ran up… buying things we needed for the house, for HIM while he was changing jobs 4 times in the span of our marriage…) is a much bigger problem. I am not disputing that I used the credit cards.
But carrying on an online affair before and after our wedding for months with a woman that I’m not convinced he didn’t meet in person because she only lives 30 minutes away isn’t a big deal? Preceeding finding all of the emails and dirty conversations, I received an “anonymous” phone call 6 months into our marriage from a woman that said she’d been having an affair with my husband since before the wedding. hmmm
Cheating/infidelity is a deal breaker and I told him that before we got married. I’ve been cheated on in every relationship I’ve had (serious relationship) since the age of 16. Sad, isn’t it? I thought I had found one that was different, that really was loyal and trust-worthy.
I’m going to have a tee-shirt made that says, “Cheaters stay away!” Because the one that says “Cheaters, here I am!” is worn out.
